Coralpro's mother's condition

[coralpro]

I want to thank those that have showed concern and given well wishes and to update all the members.
My sister informed me the nurse has said she may pass within a few days to a couple of weeks. She said she is in the latter stages of Alzheimers and her system is starting shut downs. She said that this would have happened even if she hadn't had the injury of alling over the tractor. Her bowels have started shutting down and her body is telling her she doesn't need food or water so even when they try to feed her or give her water her muscles don't want to swallow and she stands a chance of choking or the fluids going into her lungs.
We have accepted as a family that this is probably the best thing for her and will save her much pain and discomfort had she been able to get over the fall. Our dad as well as all the kids(there are four of us) have decided against installing feeding tubes and/or elctrical assistance. My younger brother is a devout Christian, which I'm not, but he says he believes the accident happened to help expedite her leaving as to minimize her suffering. I know many here have lost loved ones and when given the chance we wish not for them to suffer any more than necessary.
I'll be leaving in the morning to be there with mom and to support our father.

[atm_73]

Originally Posted by coralpro

I want to thank those that have showed concern and given well wishes and to update all the members.
My sister informed me the nurse has said she may pass within a few days to a couple of weeks. She said she is in the latter stages of Alzheimers and her system is starting shut downs. She said that this would have happened even if she hadn't had the injury of alling over the tractor. Her bowels have started shutting down and her body is telling her she doesn't need food or water so even when they try to feed her or give her water her muscles don't want to swallow and she stands a chance of choking or the fluids going into her lungs.
We have accepted as a family that this is probably the best thing for her and will save her much pain and discomfort had she been able to get over the fall. Our dad as well as all the kids(there are four of us) have decided against installing feeding tubes and/or elctrical assistance. My younger brother is a devout Christian, which I'm not, but he says he believes the accident happened to help expedite her leaving as to minimize her suffering. I know many here have lost loved ones and when given the chance we wish not for them to suffer any more than necessary.
I'll be leaving in the morning to be there with mom and to support our father.

I truly hate to hear that Darrell, I know you aren't religious, but I'll remember you and your family in prayer through this difficult time.

[ForgedRbest]

God's Speed Darrell, we will be thinking of you.

[Darth Fader]

you and your family will be in all our thoughts at this difficult time.

[pick-it-up]

Oh man, I'm sorry to hear this, Darrell!

I'll be thinking of you and your family and I wish the best for you all.

[xnavyct]

Thoughts are with you and your family, Darrell.

[drstroud]

Whatever happens, may you know we are thinking about you. This a difficult time as I went through this with my grandmother. It is not easy but my family realized it was time and the best thing that could happen.

[Shelby]

Darrell - I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope all the best for you and your family.

[halk]

My prayers are with you and your family, very sad to hear.

[Daddy'sGirl]

I'm sorry to hear about your mother. I will keep her and your family in my prayers.

[Game Face]

From our family to yours . . .


I lost my mom to cancer 1 1/2 years ago. It was tough watching her wither away in agony. I know your pain.

[RoyalWulff]

I an so very sorry to hear about your mother, I will keep her and you and your family in my prayers.

[PingsRbest]

We will be thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.

[TwillDog]

In times like these, the support of friends is invaluable. Know that each and every one of us is thinking of you, praying for you and your mother, and hoping for peace in your life.

[Texas Wedge]

I'm sorry to hear about your mother's failing health. I know there's not much one can say to make anything better at this point, but hopefully knowing that we all care will help some. Be there for the family and we look forward to your return in the future. Take Care.

[SolidRockGolf]

This is very sad to hear.... I will be praying for you and your family.

[C-Tech]

Coral, so sorry to hear about your Mom's troubles.

[coralpro]

The latest is she is showing some improvement although she hasn't gotten up and moved any. She is taking some fluids now and eating a small amount. She is still weak and in less pain now that they are giving some pain killers. Time will still tell if she can recover but it looks better than it was a couple days ago. Thanks again for everyones well wishes and prayers.

[ForgedRbest]

You probably don't believe this, I know your not religious, but prayers work buddy. Say one for her too! Keep up the vigil, we'll be here to continue the football debates!

[stlcard_25]

Darrell...I'm very sorry to hear of your mother's condition. Know that she and you all are in my thoughts and prayers...best wishes on her recovery.

[coralpro]

Latest update on Mom's condition is pretty much holding about the same. She has been able to get up now and walk around but still not eating well or drinking much. They tried switching her to pain patches instead of pills she was having trouble swallowing but she started sleeping all day and they're afraid with her sleeping that much and not moving around she will be susceptible to pneumonia. Thanks again for all the prayers and well wishes.

[pick-it-up]

Thanks for the update, Darrell.

Hang in there, buddy!

[ringin]

Please keep us updated Darrell...I'm keeping my fingers crossed that she can recover from this.

[Johneli]

It was by far the most difficult time of my life when my parents passed. I empathize with you Darrell and hope that you will be at peace in the near future.